Clarifications

A homegirl asked me about some things in my last post....I guess I should clarify some things...

She wanted to know what I meant by "romantic freedom" and "sexual freedom".

I am a person who likes romantic closeness/intimacy meaning my idea of romance includes sappy candlelit dinners, pinics under the stars...all that gay shit....

A person who likes romantic freedom expresses romance through big huge teddy bears and jewelry. Where a nice watch or diamond earrings is preferred over an intimate walk in a park. Or they are content to revel in each others company where the extraness is not necessary.

I am a person who likes sexual freedom. This does not mean that I want to slut myself out. It means that despite that I am in a relationship, I enjoy being flirtatious. I enjoy going out with my girls and getting guys to buy me drinks. I like dating...it's entertaining and fun. I want to be able to go out to a lounge and dance and have my man come with me...but I do not want to have to worry about being choked by him because I'm dancing with someone. I am a person who would not mind inviting someone to me and my man's bedroom (threesomes and being sexually open-minded is a big deal to me).

When I say someone is sexually possessive, I mean they will not allow me to do the things above without wanting to sling my ass across the room. Despite the fact that they know I do not sleep around.