Name Your Price.....

Okay...I'm a habitual dater, that's a well-known and overemphasized fact that I continuously bring up in my blog. N e one who is a habitual dater uses dating as a source of entertainment. Dating is nothing but flirty fun. For habitual daters, dating is not a means to find Mr. or Mrs. Right-For-Me. Rather, it's more like being a personal life escort.

There is a good number of men in the world who have the need to show off by having a pretty hot thing on their arm...and they are willing to reach deep down in their pockets to ensure they have a companion to do things with. There is a good number of men who want to do a lot of things but they do not want to do them by themselves. Especially if you are a man who is on his grind and doing the damn thing (i.e. need dates to corporate events, etc...). In addition, many men have girlfriends and wives at home that are not capable of traveling (i.e. kids, job) or that are simply a headache in public.

I am the type of person who does not mind being the trophy chic or the chic that a guy runs to when he needs a break from a nagging girlfriend...as long as its short-term (I'm not for being a trophy wife) and it's friendly it's all good. I like being taken on trips and being invited to see and try new and different things because like them, I want to do things but not by myself.

The greatest part of it all is that you do not have to worry about an exchange of mutual benefit. Correction. There is an exchange of mutual benefit in that the guy is only looking for an escort. That doesn't mean he won't try to tap that ass but the understanding is that you get to try new and different things at no expense and in exchange he gets the benefit of a cool, unneedy, good-looking young lady.

To be a habitual dater you have to understand the dating rules and rule #1 is DO NOT GET ATTACHED!. I have a friend who lives the same relationship lifestyle as I do (yes there are different relationship lifestyles which I will explore in another blog). The only difference between me and her is that she continuously breaks rule #1 and I continuously meet guys who break rule #1. I need to start dating the guys she dates and she needs to start dating the guys that I date.

Rule #2 is NEVER WALK THE LINE B/W COMPANION AND HO. There are some women who believe that they are habitual daters but in all reality they are hoes or what I like to call "house prostitutes". A house prostitute is a girl who fucks for money without the street corner. A Gold-digger is a type of house prostitute.

I decided to bring this topic to attention because my homegirl encountered a website called SeekingArrangement.

When you enter this site, you either sign up to be a sugar daddy, sugar mommy, or a sugar baby. The site's purpose is for men and women that have money to find people who want to make financial "arrangements". Basically, it's a site for house prostitution. My homegirl signed up for it and was telling me how she had a date tonight with one of the millionaires (the people who do the site have to approve you). I thought to myself "go ahead big pimpin" and decided to take a look at the site before I really knew what it was.

All I have to say is EEEEWWWW! There were a good number of rich married men on there who are between the ages of 35-60. As a sugar baby, on your profile, you put an asking price. You can request amounts up to $20,000+ a month to be a sugar daddy's or sugar mommy's personal travel buddy.

As I briefly mentioned, people have different relationship lifestyles. There are so many websites that support different type of relationship lifestyle communities. I suggest that if you are a person who is looking to live a particular relationship lifestyle, start searching for communities online.

I found a relationship community that supports my personal relationship lifestyle at one of SeekingArrangements sister sites. I'm all for an exchange of mutual benefit...but not if the benefit concerns sex. I was pretty disappointed to find out that my homegirl is a house prostitute. I was even more disappointed that she would even think I would consider an "arrangement". It's like being a concubine to a rich King. Why be a concubine when you can be a princess, a person on the track of Queendom?

Some of the profiles were pretty interesting to say the least. Here are some rephrased exerts from some of them:

"I'm looking for someone who can meet me 1-2 times a month for a period of 2 days. We can meet up anywhere except for Vegas. My wife lives in Vegas. Any travel would be paid in full. No pros."

"Seeking a sugar baby 24-29 year old woman who can meet me in the mornings and afternoons. But no weekends. This schedule is a must as I am a very busy man."

I don't know what the sugar momma's had to say to their sugar babies for obvious reasons. But it would be interesting to know how wealthy women get down.

I think doing these type of searches is particularly good for men who have a cheating problem...there are a lot of Hugh Heffner type of communities out there...even for those who don't have deep pockets (i.e. you can have a lot of sugar mommies).