Wednesday, May 21, 2008

12 Things the Negro Must Do To Improve Himself

“12 Things The Negro Must Do To Improve Himself
by Nannie Helen Burroughs”, 1900



1. The Negro Must Learn To Put First Things First. The First Things Are: Education; Development of Character Traits; A Trade and Home Ownership.

* The Negro puts too much of his earning in clothes, in food, in show and in having what he calls “a good time.” The Dr. Kelly Miller said, “The Negro buys what he WANTS and begs for what he Needs.” Too true!

2. The Negro Must Stop Expecting God and White Folk To Do For Him What He Can Do For Himself.

* It is the “Divine Plan” that the strong shall help the weak, but even God does not do for man what man can do for himself. The Negro will have to do exactly what Jesus told the man (in John 5: to do–Carry his own load–”Take up your bed and walk.”

3. The Negro Must Keep Himself, His Children And His Home Clean And Make The Surroundings In Which He Lives Comfortable and Attractive.

*He must learn to “run his community up”–not down. We can segregate by law, we integrate only by living. Civilization is not a matter of race; it is a matter of standards. Believe it or not–some day, some race is going to outdo the Anglo-Saxon, completely. It can be the Negro race, if the Negro gets sense enough. Civilization goes up and down that way.

4. The Negro Must Learn To Dress More Appropriately For Work And For Leisure.

* Knowing what to wear–how to wear it–when to wear it and where to wear it, are earmarks of common sense, culture and also an index to character.

5. The Negro Must Make His Religion An Everyday Practice And Not Just A Sunday-Go-To-Meeting Emotional Affair.

6. The Negro Must Highly Resolve To Wipe Out Mass Ignorance.

* The leaders of the race must teach and inspire the masses to become eager and determined to improve mentally, morally and spiritually, and to meet the basic requirements of good citizenship.

* We should initiate an intensive literacy campaign in America, as well as in Africa. Ignorance–satisfied ignorance–is a millstone abut the neck of the race. It is democracy’s greatest burden.

* Social integration is a relationship attained as a result of the cultivation of kindred social ideals, interests and standards.

* It is a blending process that requires time, understanding and kindred purposes to achieve. Likes alone and not laws can do it.

7. The Negro Must Stop Charging His Failures Up To His “Color” And To White People’s Attitude.

* The truth of the matter is that good service and conduct will make senseless race prejudice fade like mist before the rising sun.

* God never intended that a man’s color shall be anything other than a badge of distinction. It is high time that all races were learning that fact. The Negro must first QUALIFY for whatever position he wants. Purpose, initiative, ingenuity and industry are the keys that all men use to get what they want. The Negro will have to do the same. He must make himself a workman who is too skilled not to be wanted, and too DEPENDABLE not to be on the job, according to promise or plan. He will never become a vital factor in industry until he learns to put into his work the vitalizing force of initiative, skill and dependability. He has gone “RIGHTS” mad and “DUTY” dumb.

8. The Negro Must Overcome His Bad Job Habits.

* He must make a brand new reputation for himself in the world of labor. His bad job habits are absenteeism, funerals to attend, or a little business to look after. The Negro runs an off and on business. He also has a bad reputation for conduct on the job–such as petty quarrelling with other help, incessant loud talking about nothing; loafing, carelessness, due to lack of job pride; insolence, gum chewing and–too often–liquor drinking. Just plain bad job habits!

9. He Must Improve His Conduct In Public Places.

* Taken as a whole, he is entirely too loud and too ill-mannered.

* There is much talk about wiping out racial segregation and also much talk about achieving integration.

* Segregation is a physical arrangement by which people are separated in various services.

* It is definitely up to the Negro to wipe out the apparent justification or excuse for segregation.

* The only effective way to do it is to clean up and keep clean. By practice, cleanliness will become a habit and habit becomes character.

10. The Negro Must Learn How To Operate Business For People–Not For Negro People, Only.

* To do business, he will have to remove all typical “earmarks,” business principles; measure up to accepted standards and meet stimulating competition, graciously–in fact, he must learn to welcome competition.

11. The Average So-Called Educated Negro Will Have To Come Down Out Of The Air. He Is Too Inflated Over Nothing.

* Otherwise, through indifference, as to the plight of the masses, the Negro, who thinks that he has escaped, will lose his own soul.

* A race transformation itself through its own leaders and its sensible “common people.” A race rises on its own wings, or is held down by its own weight. True leaders are never “things apart from the people.” They are the masses. They simply got to the front ahead of them. Their only business at the front is to inspire to masses by hard work and noble example and challenge them to “Come on!”

* There must arise within the Negro race a leadership that is not out hunting bargains for itself. A noble example is found in the men and women of the Negro race, who, in the early days, laid down their lives for the people. Their invaluable contributions have not been appraised by the “latter-day leaders.” In many cases, their names would never be recorded, among the unsung heroes of the world, but for the fact that white friends have written them there.

* The Negro of today does not realize that, but, for these exhibits A’s, that certainly show the innate possibilities of members of their own race, white people would not have been moved to make such princely investments in lives and money, as they have made, for the establishment of schools and for the on-going of the race.

12. The Negro Must Stop Forgetting His Friends. “Remember.”

* The American Negro has had and still has friends–in the North and in the South. These friends not only pray, speak, write, influence others, but make unbelievable, unpublished sacrifices and contributions for the advancement of the race–for their brothers in bonds.

* The noblest thing that the Negro can do is to so live and labor that these benefactors will not have given in vain. The Negro must make his heart warm with gratitude, his lips sweet with thanks and his heart and mind resolute with purpose to justify the sacrifices and stand on his feet and go forward. Get to work! That’s the answer to everything that hurts us. We talk too much about nothing instead of redeeming the time by working.

R-E-M-E-M-B-E-R



* In spite of race prejudice, America is brim full of opportunities. Go after them!

~ The saddest thing about this article that I found interesting is that this was written in 1900 and unfortunately it still applies today.....in other words, negros have yet to change in over 100 years.~

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

Ignorance is Bliss?

I recently returned back to Baltimore to visit family and friends before I take my leave to Las Vegas for the summer. I leave for Vegas in less than 48 hours. I'm more than estatic to be going to Vegas even though the process of getting there has been such a huge headache. However, it's during these transition periods in my life that I always feel conflicted. It's true that Baltimore is my home--it was here that I was born and raised--but at the same time, I have this strong urge to permantly leave it behind. I feel that leaving Baltimore behind is necessary for my sanity, success, and overall happiness. However, I feel guilty about it. I feel like I'm turning on my city, on my friends, and on my family. I never liked arrogant, boogee bitches who walk around thinking they are better than everyone but at the same time I got to do me.

When I say that I want to leave Baltimore behind, I literally mean that I will eventually permantly cut off everyone from home...including family. When I finish my Masters and relocate, I plan to change my number and not let anyone have it. This includes the mother, the father, and the list goes on and on. I'm makin ghost. As of now, including those who I know outside of Baltimore, everyone is on my May 2011 spring cleaning hit list. Come May 2011, everyone is getting the boot (maybe except two people). That's my planned graduate school graduation date.

I'm not bitter or anything but as I said, I feel it's what needs to be done. It is what it is. I refuse to have alot of negativity in my life. I'm all for the peace, happiness, and a high quality of life and I'm learning that if you ain't with me then you are against me. The most anyone who I know now can ask from me is a letter without a return address (yall think I'm playin when I say I'm going to be ghost...I've done it before, I'd do it again...I'm flightly like that).

I hold no real grudges. I do not think that people in Baltimore are bad people. I am a person from Baltimore. By saying Baltimorians are bad people then I would have to include myself in the mix. I understand the Bmore culture but I have outgrown it. Home is what you make it and I'm upgrading from an apartment to a mansion. Baltimore is the apartment, the U.S. is my mansion. Both are home.

I think that there is a cultural ignorance that you adapt when you live in Baltimore. I can sit up here and whine and complain about how my parents and my friends have not been on point as much as I want them to be, but at the same time, I have to remind myself that it's Baltimore. People are not necessarily inherentlly selfish. Rather, they are ignorant. There are things that living in the Baltimore Box keep you away from because culturally, many of the things that should be valued are undervalued and many of the things that are undervalued should be valued. This is what a Baltimorian is taught...and if you do not know anything a part from how you were born and raised, then you are a victim of a faulty system. But regardless of how much you feel like a victim and how much you feel like flippin the bird at life, ignorance is ignorance.

Ignorance is ignorance and certainly not bliss. The majority of the people I know in Baltimore are unhappily ignorant. Ignorance is bliss if you live a life sheltered from the bad things, but ignorance is your worst enemy if you live a life sheltered from the good things.

Regardless of whether or not you are a victim of a faulty system, does not mean you have to stay within the system, visit, or take it with you. If the system is fautly then you either must work to rebuild it or you have to find a new system. I have tried my best to influence my fellow Baltimorians to get their acts together, but they always push back with full resistance. I have tried my best to be supportive and to be a good, loving, and loyal friend. But it has not been reciprocated because it's hard for them to understand where I'm comin from because they do not know how it feels to be on top.

Case in point number 1: Choosing Dick over Money

When I'm outside of Baltimore, it's rare for people to consistently talk about gettin' pussy and gettin' dick. People talk about it but it does not become the forefront of their life. In Baltimore on the other hand, you cannot get away from those type of conversations to save your life. I loooveee to talk about sex but there is a difference between sex being at the forefront of your mind vs. sex being at the forefront of your life. Some people literally live to fuck.

I recently told one of my sister's homegirls that she needs to stop focusing on dick all the time. Every time I turn around this chic says "I have no life, I need some dick". Since when did dick become the new way to get a life? I looked at her and told her "why not focus on getting money?" Both her and another homegirl replied that they both get money and get dick. When they said this it was apparent they do not know what "get money" meant considering one chic didn't even have $5.00 to put in her gas tank and the other one consistently complained about starving.

Choosing dick over money is why there are so many kids running around without responsible mommies and daddies. Getting fucked right is a bigger priority than finding financial stability or building a solid relationship. And having sex is not "getting dick"...anyone can have sex. To me, getting dick is keeping dick meaning you are in a good relationship where you get fucked right on the regular and do not have to share with anyone else.


Case in point number 2: Looking Down on those who are Looking Up

I'm starting to understand why many entertainers are always talkin, singing, and writin about haters and "people who do not believe in them". I always thought that their little violin sob story was a bit redundant and overemphasized until I started walkin in their shoes. When you are on top, everyone comes at you. They try to tear you a part like a vulture at dinner time (I'll get into specifics in my next entry because there is a lot of shit with this).


Case in point number 3: Gender roles are still stuck in the 20s

A guy with endurance is considered a man but a woman with endurance is considered an arrogant bitch. A rich, successful, single guy is considered a person who is really doin it up. A rich, successful, single woman is considered smart but lonely. Oh, the double standards we live.

I am a woman who knows I'm going to be rich and successful. But that does not mean that I'm going to be lonely. A woman does not have to give up love and children to be a financial success. If men can do it, women can do it. And just because a gal is against marriage doesn't mean she's against being in a relationship or against having "friends". Financially successful women tend to have more established, solid relationships.

Sunday, May 18, 2008

Back in Bmore Baby!

I'm in Baltimore until the this upcoming Thursday, the 22nd. I'll update my blog when I get to Vegas....

Get At Me!